How do i show her that i don't care?
by admin on Wednesday, July 7th, 2010 | 8 Comments
I have this friend.. and she wont confide in me anymore… she’s one of my best mates.. and she wont tell me anything about things going on between her and her boyfriend anymore…… all because i got upset because i she is going out with someone, and i never will… anyway, thats not the point….
the point is…
how do i show her that i don’t care anymore about how upset i get…
I’d rather see my friends happy, than me..
how do i show/ tell her that?
i need some help, fast…….
with some girls you just have to tell them straight to their face. just tell her that as she has stopped confiding in you, you thinks its best to end your friendship with her as you dont trust her anymore.
James, James, James!!
Baby, you cannot show her that you don’t care because you DO care about her…a lot. She’s your friend. You admit that the source of your distancing is that you were jealous of her relationship. So you crossed a boundary an the repercussion is that she won’t confide in you her personal stuff. I know u feel hurt, but it is her right weather or not she wants to talk about her private issues with someone.
The two of you love each other, and you have to smooth the rough edges. Ask her out for ice cream (not at Drink!, you are a minor, for god’s sake!) and tell her how much you miss her friendship. Tell her how much you’d like for things to get back to what they were, and the most important thing is APOLOGIZE for being jealous of her relationship. She understands
Don’t isolate yourself from people that are good to you for no reason at all. Once your friends are gone, they won’t come back and you will always want to cherish the good.
Best way to get you’re point across is to go out, have a few drinks and discuss it with her!!
Jmaes you have to let go and distance yourself
Thats the only way to show you really care
ask yourself why do you care? If she doesnt want to tell you things then you cant force her, and you should frankly be glad that you dont have to listen to her problems
If she wants to tell them to you then fine, listen and try always to give what you think is the best advice.
First of all, she is doing it because she is thinking the best for you, she knows that every little thing that shetells you about her relationship will only hurt you deep inside even if you try to hide it, or deny it. first of all change the wa you act around her. slowly gain her trust again and show her that you see her as a friend from now on and that she can confide you anything she wants. Keep me posted.
I think you should just apologize and tell her your concerns and that you really mean what you say. Plead and beg if you have to and swallow your pride.
tell her exactly this sentence that you wrote ["I'd rather see my friends happy, than me.."] and l am sure that she ll be very touched! If not, then she doesn’t worth it to be your friend ;o)